Numbers play an important role in our daily lives.
We set alarms to wake up at a specific time
There’s a number…not my favorite. Today it was 4:15 AM
We leave at a specific time to arrive at work/school on time
Another number…perhaps one I should pay closer attention to
We buy gas for our cars
How about those numbers? Yikes
We buy coffee, lunch, etc
Numbers that quickly add up
We pay our bills
Numbers…some bigger than we want
We celebrate birthdays
The ever-increasing number
We date interesting gents from an online dating site
What? Wait a minute….
What are the important numbers in dating?
Aside from keeping up with the exact number of spankings I receive, numbers often play an interesting role in the dating scene.
Here are a few I like to keep track of…
How many messages are exchanged before they bring in sexual innuendo?
How many messages before they ask for a phone number?
When is the initial meeting?
Those are all significant numbers. Some would say I have skipped important numbers like their income…how many kids they have…how many times they’ve been married.
But I say, no. That stuff is not a priority for me, unless they have been married more than Elizabeth Taylor. We all make mistakes. No judgement here.
Or if they haven’t held down a job since Clinton was president. (There’s actually a number for that…a big fat ZERO)
Here’s another number to look at when dating….
I have been surprised to find how significant and insignificant these numbers are.
Someone may be 46 years old in human years….but have the social acumen of a nervous 14 year old.
On the other hand, he could be 26 years old…and have the presence of a seasoned CEO.
He could be 31 and carry himself with the confidence and humility of a military General.
He could have his AARP card and still have the stamina of a freshman at Florida State.
Age is relative to the person.
Relative to their life experience.
Because I have learned this firsthand on my journey, I find that I pay little attention to age when perusing the dating scene.
But I do see trends. Just my observations…
The older, more experienced men have a tendency to skip over the niceties. They are often the gropers on the first date. The ones who just try too hard. Many of these men have been married for a long period of time and they are looking for that level of familiarity.
I also find that the older crowd is less apt to embrace change. They have done it this way and it’s the way they do it.
The younger ones are eager to learn the ways of the experienced older teacher, while bringing their own set of skills.
I have found in my limited experience that they are more attentive. And tend to be great listeners.
Listening to learn from their elders.
They can be a bit pushy at times, but I find it easier to redirect the younger student than their older counterpart.
Maybe I am a bit twisted…
Don’t answer that…
But I have found that my favorite suitors have been a bit younger or significantly younger than me.
They seem to embrace what I am in to and do all they can to learn more…
Their quest for knowledge and understanding is sexy.
And on a side note, they are great with tech support stuff. If I have an iPhone issue, they are the first on the scene with a solution. Computer issue? No problem. It’s great!
And those who are my age are fun and have their benefits. Many of them are bitter from their impending mid-life crisis, but nonetheless, I enjoy them equally.
But the young ones are intriguing…
And nothing against the older, more seasoned gents.
Sometimes I crave the freshness over the seasoning.
And we will leave it at that…